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Planning a funeral or memorial service is a deeply personal and emotional process and choosing the right funeral song to accompany it can help to honour and celebrate your loved ones life.
In this article, we will share some tips on how to choose funeral songs that are meaningful for your loved one's service.
Consider the person's personality
The first thing to consider when choosing funeral songs is the person's personality. Think about what kind of music they liked listening to, what genres, who their favourite band or artists were and perhaps even lyrics that resonated with them. If your loved one was a fun-loving, energetic person you might like to choose upbeat songs that celebrate this spirit. Alternatively, if they were more reflective or introspective, you might like to choose more contemplative or emotional songs that honour their memory.
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Think about the mood you want to create
Another important factor to consider when choosing funeral songs is the mood. The music you choose will set the tone for the service, so think about what kind of atmosphere you want to create. Do you want to create a sombre, reflective mood or would you prefer to celebrate your loved one's life with a more upbeat tone? Consider the message you want to convey and choose songs that reflect that.
Ask for friends and family
Choosing funeral songs can be daunting and it's important to remember that you don't have to choose one alone. Reach out to friends and family and ask for their thoughts and suggestions. They may have ideas for songs that you haven't considered, or they may have special memories associated with certain songs that would be meaningful to include in the service.
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Consider the lyrics
The words in a song can be just as important as the melody therefore you want to choose songs whose lyrics are appropriate and meaningful. Research songs that contain lyrics that speak to the person's life and personality and avoid songs that might be seen as insensitive or inappropriate.
Don't be afraid to get creative
There's no rules when it comes to choosing funeral songs and you don't have to always opt for traditional or sombre music if that doesn't feel right for your loved one's service. Consider songs that are outside the box or that have special meaning to you and your family. You might even consider writing your own song to create a piece of music that honours your loved one's memory.
Consider the length of the service
Be mindful of the length of the service. You don't want too many songs or the service might run too long or not enough and the service feels rushed. Aim for a balance of songs that will fit comfortably within the timeframe.
Remember to take care of yourself
Planning a funeral or memorial service can be emotionally exhausting, and it's important to remember to take care of yourself during this difficult time. If you are struggling and need help choosing funeral songs, don't hesitate to reach out to friends or family for support. You might like to consider working with a funeral director or celebrant who can offer guidance and assistance.
To find support:
Beyond Blue provides Australians with information and support to improve their mental health. Call 1300 22 46 36 or visit beyondblue.org.au for more information.
Lifeline Australia provides Australians experiencing a personal crisis with access to 24-hour crisis support. Call 13 11 14 or visit lifeline.org.au for more information.
GriefLine listens, cares and supports people experiencing loss and grief, at any stage in life. Call 1300 845 6am to midnight AEST, 7 days a week.
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Kids Helpline is a free 24/7, confidential and private counselling service Australia wide specifically for children and young people aged 5 to 25 years. Call 1800 55 1800.
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